What is your formula for true ~"Appi" Nest~? TM

~ "Appi Nest" ~ TM

Dedicated to my best friend with ❤

What is your formula for true~ "Appi Nest" ~? 

 What is ~ "Appi Nest" ~?

Definition to what happiness is.

"Happiness is when your life fulfills your needs. In other words, happiness comes when you feel satisfied and fulfilled. Happiness is a feeling of contentment, that life is just as it should be. Perfect happiness, enlightenment, comes when you have all of your needs satisfied."

~ "Ya Appi Mon?" ~ LOL!

For many of us we can feel when a person is not happy.  It's a dead give away because the person will just tell you. Or remain silent for a while by giving you warning signs or do things to let you know.

"Bro she ain't happy"  

When "Appi Nest" is felt there is peacefulness, ease, calm, and tranquility.   

Do we consider what makes the other person "Appi"?

What is the formula for creating "Appi Nest" 

Is it being considerate?  Is it in having a good peaceful spirit?

Is it in the best manner of approach at the right time. 

What tone of voice shall one have when seeking to make a person "Appi?"

What look on a persons face is necessary to create "Appi Nest?"

Is it in a fragrance?  Is it in a oil? Is it in her dress? Is it in his dress? Is it in her walk? Is it in his walk?

Is it the way her soft voice sounds to you? Is it the way his soft voice sounds to you? 

What is the action necessary to raise that satisfying sensation or rush of Oxytocin?

For some a nice cooked and served hot meal will do. 

Is it making sure that the house is clean, organized, and orderly with less confusion?  

Is it in a safe & secure home without abuse, violence, hatred, envy, malice, or ill will?

Is it making sure the food is ready when he arrive or when she arrives home from a long day of work?  

Is it being sure that you say the right words at the right time?

I believe all these things can bring happiness.  

Do you make her feel valued? Do you make him feel valued?

Do you support his ideas? Do you support her ideas? 

Are you even interested in what she is saying or what he is saying?

Body language is a DEAD give away!!

A woman knows and can feel your attempt to please her or your effort to help make life easier.

All these things ultimately bring about happiness.

Are you "Appi" with who you are in your own self?  Do you even like who you are?

No man nor woman can give you happiness if you are NOT happy with your self, your body, your look, or how you treat yourself. 

It's not just physical! It's mental as well.

Do you attempt to please you? Do you attempt to do the things that you like.

Do you dedicate your time to helping others be happy but refuse to help yourself to be happy or do the things that will make you feel happy. 

Do you go out of your way to please others instead of pleasing YOU?

How can we expect for another person to give us happiness when we are not giving it to our own self.

Honestly that is a lot to put on someone. 

No matter what the person does. It wont be appreciated if you are not "Appi" inside.

What makes you "Appi?" This takes confronting! Please do what makes you "Appi" and be with someone that is making you "Appi" but you must be "Appi" with who and what you are FIRST.

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Don't invalidate! Validate!

Acknowledgement her! Acknowledge him! Validate her! Validate him.

Do you even care?

Validate her communication. Validate his communication. One should never invalidate any ideas or suggestions. Why? Because behind your back one will take those same ideas and thoughts to another person that will give them the validation they need. This is how affairs start with another person that is seeking to make her "Appi" or make him "Appi".

This is how the mental war begins! A battle of comparison in the mind of the person granting validation and appreciation vs what you are not doing.

We all can learn to communicate our ideas better and our thoughts better.

A person just want to be heard and validated.

For this reason don't suppress or invalidate another persons hopes, dreams, or wishes. 

"YA APPI MON?"

What makes you "Appi"?

Is it being with that special person? 

What is true "Appi Nest?"

What is your formula to having "Appi Nest?"

"True Appi Nest lies at the foot of a APPI WOMAN"

Peace & Blessings family

Allow "Appi Nest" to reign

Create "Appi Nest"

Love Your brother & servant 

Brother Kendrick